You
have to set an example.
First be a shining example,
and then the children will follow you;
there’s no need to force them.
One example is better than twenty years of talk. 
From
News 98, Pearls of Wisdom
Spoken by Supreme Master Ching Hai
Los Angeles, California, USA • April 3, 1993
(Originally in English)
We
should serve our families in whatever way is beneficial to
them, not to us.
We should not demand but always give and sacrifice.
And if each member of the family does the same thing,
then of course there will be harmony and love in the family.
From
News 98, Pearls of Wisdom
Spoken by Supreme Master Ching Hai
Singapore • March 9, 1993
(Originally in English)
Taking
care of the family
